A friend of mine once told me that in all of the great literature of the world, the only thing that was ever written about this topic was the book, “The Myth of Sisyphus”. My point is that we are taught that we are responsible for our own fate and can change it however we want. We are told to stop worrying, and to get over it. We are told to quit trying to fix it and start trying to change it.
Well, yeah, but there’s a big difference between the way we are taught and the way we actually are taught. Like most of the other things we are taught, it’s all about consequences. The things we are told to stop worrying about are the things that have a negative impact on our lives. We are told to quit trying to fix it and start trying to change it. The way we are taught never includes the positive effects of our actions or the effects of the things we do.
The problem is that a lot of our habits and patterns are rooted in negative habits that we see in our families. They come from the fear of losing a spouse, the fear of losing our job because of our job/business, the fear of having to move from a safe location, the fear of being shunned, the fear of being ostracized, the fear of being attacked, and the fear of being murdered.
The problem is that we often try to take these negative habits and patterns and make them positive, but they turn into negative habits and patterns that we often do not want to be associated with. For example, we often try to change our marriage into a marriage of love and respect, but we often end up with a marriage of anger and violence.
The best way to change that? Just make the changes.
Many of the behaviors we fear are actually the very things we need to change. Sometimes the behaviors that we fear are actually the very things that we need to change. For example, fear of being attacked is actually the very thing that most of us need to change. The reason we need to change our fear of being attacked is because it makes us afraid to go out and attack strangers.
When we fear being attacked, we have two options. We can walk away and wait for the fear to fade and the danger to recede. Or we can take steps to fight back. The more you fight back, the less you need to fear being attacked.
We are the ones who need to know the difference between fear and fear of being attacked. This is all the fear that we need to change. Fear of being attacked is the most dangerous one. Fear of being attacked can be as frightening as fear of being eaten by the fear of being attacked. Fear of being attacked can actually help you to stay alive and safe.
The fear of being attacked is the very real one, and it can even be a good thing. Fear of being attacked can be as terrifying as fear of being eaten by the fear of being attacked. It’s a scary thing that can be even more frightening if you get the fear of being attacked. In the past I’ve learned how to deal with the fear of being attacked by fear of being eaten by fear of being attacked.